Don't just swim the tide

Have anyone tried to look at life differently?


Have YOU tried to change the way people live their lives? Ever?

Yes?
No?

If your answer is yes, then you may not see anything new in this post.
If it is NO, your are my guy for today.
So, according to you what is life?

Life is god's gift. If your answer is yes, then yes you are right. It is God's own gift given to you, very precious and rare. So why don't you use it in a correct way and in the right manner. Life is just what you design it to be. But for some people, it is already designed, nicely packed like a birthday gift, and gifted to them when they enter this world, world which they have not known before. What i meant to say is, some parents already decide what their child must do when grownup. But actually they are bounding the gift given by the God to their children with all the restrictions and they are even adding their own dreams to their children's life, dreams that they couldn't make come true in their lives. Like the movie 3Idiots. Thanks to the film for spreading so much awareness about life, education, excellency. Doing what others want you to do is not living your life. Do what you want to do, excel in what you are doing. Just it, and the world will bow before you. Do whatever you want to do, you may make some mistakes at first (mistakes do happen, right?) but you'll learn a lot from it. You'll be enjoying what u are doing. But if not, if you do what you dont want to do, if you dont do what you want to do, and if you don't be what you wanna be, i bet there is no meaning in living such life.

And ofcourse there are some people who don't give a damn about their life, they just go with the flow, and realise later what had happened to them. And they feel sad then for what had happened to their life. Even I have a friend who doesnt care about her life, she doesnt give a damn actually. Just moves with the flow. And i bet she will definitely think about all this later and feel for what had happened. Don't lead your life like a sheep in a herd. You are unique in your very own way. Of-course every one has their own talent, you have yours obviously. Break all the non-sense rules, boundaries. Come out and see the world. It looks so beautiful and you have lots of colours to make it even more beautiful.

But we must and should write our own path. Everyone will know their own interests better than others. For example, i am pursuing my under-graduation in Aeronautics, and i am interested in something completely different from what i am studying. I am very much interested in computers and web designing. Infact, i fell in love with computers long ago. Yes it depends on you, what path you choose to succeed. Afterall, the final product is a sweet fruit of success, happiness and self-satisfaction. An animator creates animation, designs it. But a real animator animates his own thoughts, he lives in his imaginations, such people create wonders. Example, Walt Disney's Mickey Mouse. Just like i eat yinglish, i talk yinglish, i walk yinglish dialogue from a random movie. If you are really intersted in what you are doing then nothing else will bother you.

Remember, success is not something which gives 50k salary per month, a 8hour work per day, or a good wife. Real success means being happily doing what you really want to do. Excel in what you are doing. This is success to me and a lot of other successful people like Mark Zuckerberg, etc. He dropped out of his college for working on his dream project, that is passion for what he loves.

And yeah, i dont blame either parents or the kids themselves. Even so many people we meet in our life are also responsible in changing our lives, and some people do ruin ours. For example, our lecturers. The great, brilliant, intelligent, useless piece of un-sharable knowledged persons. Assignments, bounded class notes, formal wear, every other bull-shit that we daily complain about. These peoples ruined their own lives and
started on a mission to ruin another bunch of lives.Not all of them
are like that but many are.

My sincere pledge to all the lecturers,
"We, as students expect only a kind of encouragement and some knowledge to gain. You may not be perfect. Of-course no one is perfect in the world we understand. But your imperfectness should not affect the students. Please don't treat us like slaves. We just want to live like free birds, finding something new everyday. We do respect u and your seniority. Most of the time in our lives we spend with you. So you have a lot of impact on our lives. Please try to change the attitude towards students. After-all, we are tomorrow's future."

Coming to girls, i know them as just book-eating, silent-sitting, robo bugs. What the hell is wrong with you?
Just open up guys, you are a part of this world, world going down. Upto my best knowledge, i know that for 50% girls life is just growing up, helping mom(girl from the same half), marrying an unknown guy,
making children, and dying peacefully. Crap. Thats not life madams. You have a lot to explore(not that EXPLORE from the movie PAUL), lot of new dreams to make true. Just live your life the way you want it, the way you designed to be. Its not just ending up at nothing, you must make a meaning out of your life. Yeah, definitely guys.

So, here is my serious and sincere request to all the readers of thispost and my dear friends, before you do anything touch your heart and
feel it. If your heart says yes then go for it. Otherwise leave that
without any second thought, what ever it may be. Dont bother. Just live your
life. Listen to your heart not to ur brain. Dont back off guys if you face troubles. Afterall, they are just troubles, they wont
last long.


DON'T JUST SWIM THE TIDE, MAKE A DIFFERENCE, BREAK THROUGH IT.


Sincere thanks to Shwetha for brilliant ideas. A small gift for your Birthday.

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